Thursday, February 22, 2007


I'm writing this in hopes that later in the day, I'll be doing dishes or reading a book, and Tim finds me and takes me to bed. Tim and I haven't had sex in 7 days. Granted, we did take a little vacation which was a vacation in the sense of - you need another vacation after the vacation because the 1st vacation was so crammed with things to do and you are exhausted. But we're back and rested and my 1 time in trying to initiate things came back to me as Tim hadn't had an orgasm in quite a few days either and he didn't want me to deal with 2 minute sex. We masturbated together, and it was fine. But I need to feel the intimacy and closeness that sex brings too. I always joke about how I'm hitting my sexual peak and will always be up for a shag. But the truth is, even if I'm tired and not feeling sexy, I still like to have Tim and I get naked.


Odysseus said...

Here's hopin' you get what you need!

Tim said...

Yes, we did have some fun!

Maude was right; I was feeling a little disconnected for a few days, preoccupied with and stressing over some big changes which lay ahead. It wasn't my intention, of course, to be sexually distant, but that's what happened because I was, um, oblivious and dumb.

Making love to Maude always makes me appreciate how lucky I am.

Odysseus said...

hehe don't worry, we've all been there. sounds like you guys are able to recognize it and work it out, though, that's the most important thing.