Sunday, April 29, 2007

New Quiz

What would you like to read about next? One vote per person and most votes wins...

1) My favorite (and in detail) household item to masturbate with
2) My 1st and only time having anal sex
3) My biggest sexual fantasy

What I am doing right now...

Friday, April 27, 2007

Our new and improved survey (and 10 times better than any other) answered!!

Thank you to Hot Husband and Hot Wife of Let's Talk About Sex Baby. Love the survey! This is much better than any others I've come across!!

So here are my answers... Tim- Take this survey too. I would be interested to see your thoughts.

Your blog is going on its fifth month. Do you see it changing much in the next 5-6 months?
Has it really been that long???
Yes. Tim and I are going to need to make a decision soon. So for better or for worse, this blog is going to be different. How different? I'm not sure. But this long-distance thing needs to end!

You’re currently in the process of moving. Is it for the better, and was it a move you planned for some time?
It was good and bad. We needed to make the move for a variety of reasons and hopefully down the road it will be for the good. But right now I am feeling the effects of separation and I'm pretty sad about it. We had planned on this happening for some time. Was it for the better? I hope so. I think so.

Where do you see yourself in five years?
Exactly 5 years from now. It will be Friday night and I get home from work early. Tim is in the kitchen making his famous chicken curry. He hands me a glass of wine. He has some music playing in the background and I leave him to finish dinner and head to the bedroom. I take a shower and come back to the kitchen just as he is setting the table. I want to go down on him before we eat. He declines... we are having guests over after dinner and he wants to save all his energy for them too.

Not too long ago, you two attended a swingers club. If confronted with the opportunity tonight, would you go to another one?
Sure! I liked the first one we went to. I was so nervous about it, but now looking back, I am so glad that we went! It was one of those experiences that brought me closer to finding out who I am as a sexual being.

Would you do anything differently than the first time?
Maybe not drink quite as much. And try to relax more and just enjoy the moment. And make sure Tim makes out with someone. He has seen me but I have not seen him make out with anyone else yet.

Red wine or white wine?
Red wine for me. I love Merlot. And Pinot Noir.

Where are you right now? Just kidding, we already knew because we’re looking in your window...
Wanna come in?

You two are at a bar. You go to the bathroom and when you return, an attractive member of the opposite sex is talking with the other.
A. Take a seat a couple of stools down and observe
B. Barge in the conversation rudely, to get the point across that you are with them C. Casually join the conversation and see where it leads
Definitely C. I would never, ever do B. Maybe A depending on the circumstances. I would like to see Tim work his magic and flirt. But I would join in sooner or later.

Hot wife and I are going to be in your town for a night. We talk and decide to hang out. What would we do?
Hmmm... let's see. I would see if you wanted to have a drink at a cool little bar I know of. If we wanted to continue our evening of fun, I have drinks at home too. And then I'd probably want to take advantage of you.

See any kids in the future?
No. Not for me. And of course, this could change, but right now I cannot see myself as a mother. I am scared to death to push a human being out of my hoo-hoo. It freaks me out way too much. If I really wanted children, I would adopt. But I don't think I have that maternal instinct. I'd make a much better aunt.

Any advice for couples just starting a blog?
Just be non-judgemental, honest, and open. You learn a lot from your partner in this medium. I don't have any negative thoughts on it... I am so, so glad that Tim suggested doing this. It has been great for our relationship.

Thursday, April 26, 2007

Just What I Needed

As Maude mentioned a few days ago, she and I were fortunate enough to spend some time together here in my home state. It was wonderful to see her.When I picked her up at the airport and felt her soft lips press against mine, it seemed like all the frustrations of living so far apart m-e-l-t-e-d away. And her voice — heard not through a phone, but in real life — felt like a massage. I've always loved her brown eyes, but they were especially beautiful then.

The days that we had together were wonderful. We'd plan our day as we ate breakfast at one of the local diners and then head out for an afternoon of flirting and fun, knowing that one another's comapny was all we needed and anything else that happened was just a bonus.

We went to a great baseball game (the good guys won), visited a brewery with some damn tasty beer, and had several types of cuisine that we hadn't been able to find in the city which we used to call home.

It was perfect. She rocks my world, and I am one lucky guy.


Tim and I went to a strip club in Mexico once with a group of friends (male and female). After an hour of drinking and watching dances, Tim whispered in my ear asking me if I would like to join him upstairs for a couples dance. I glanced up to the balcony which was the 2nd floor. "But you can see everything that is happening up there", I thought.
I liked the thought.
We quickly excused ourselves from the table, ignoring the snickers and smiles coming from our friends. A beautiful woman guided us through the hallway, up a winding staircase, and to a little cove with 2 seats across from each other and the balcony which looked down to the stage. Tim and I scooted the seats back a bit so that we still see everything happening downstairs, but the chance of anyone seeing us was slimmer. The woman gave Tim a lap dance. She straddled him while pushing her breasts into his face. I watched. She whispered something in his ear and he nodded. She then came over to my chair and started rubbing her body against mine. She reached for my hand and placed it on her breast. I switched hands so Tim could get a better view. She began to lower herself onto my body and said something to me in Spanish. I don't know what she said and I didn't ask her to repeat. I just kept entertaining her, Tim, and myself. I looked down and saw our group of friends below, whistling at the dancers, and doing shots. I scooted down on the chair and she lifted my shirt up and began to kiss my breasts. She started to pull up my skirt and touched my inner thighs. I spread my legs. She turned me so that Tim could see exactly what she was doing. Her tongue flicked across my panties. She never removed any clothing, but I could feel her tongue brushing against my clit and the entire situation had me so turned on. I could see Tim was feeling the same way, how he was re-adjusting the tent in his pants. She stood up and motioned for me to go to Tim. I leaned over and kissed him. I reached for his crotch and unzipped his jeans. I knew in the back of my head that any second, she was going to tell us enough and send us downstairs again. But the tequila shots had gotten to me, and I wasn't going to stop until I was forced to. Before I knew it, I had my mouth all over Tim's cock. He was hard as a rock and dribbling pre-cum. I lapped it up.
And then our dancer had to break it up. She didn't want to get in trouble. We sat there for a moment until Tim could walk back down to the main area. We never said a word to our friends, but did end up finding a hotel for the night.

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

TMI Tuesday

From TMI Tuesday's blogspot:

1. What one piece of sage relationship advice would you give your child (or niece/nephew or friend).

Be able to openly discuss anything without fear of judgement. If there is something you cannot tell the person you are with, then you should re-evaluate your relationship.

2. When was the last time you left a passion mark Or had one left on you? (A passion mark is an unintentional physical manifestation of an act of passion: a hickey left in the heat of the moment; fingernail or teeth marks that last for more than an hour, a bump on your head from slamming into the headboard could even count).

I don't think I have ever left a "passion mark" on anyone. The last time I had one on my body? In college. Actually, having my neck or breasts sucked to the point of leaving a mark is an incredible turn on for me. I just hate the way it looks. But the feeling is amazing.

3. When was the last time you had sex in a car?

Actual full blown intercourse was also in college. Parked on a dirt road about a mile from my parents house.
I went down on Tim once in the car. We were only a few blocks from my apartment though, so we finished inside.

4. Have you ever had an orgasm in a public conveyance?

No. But the scene in Risky Business when they get it on on a train is so HOT!

5. Have you ever had an orgasm with someone other than your partner (or partners) present?

Wait. Does this mean an orgy? Or that I had an orgasm with someone other than Tim? This is a badly worded question. No, I have not had a 3-some or 4-some. And no, I haven't had an orgasm with anyone other than Tim since we've been together.

Bonus (as in optional): You are strolling along in the mall with your S.O. (hypothetical if necessary) A young same sex as your S.O. is approaching from the opposite direction and will pass within feet of you. (S)he is attractive and has magnificent body. Describe your reaction .

I'd look. Probably stare.

Sunday, April 22, 2007

My girls...

Friday, April 20, 2007

Sexy Blog Reviews

So here I was tonight... bored and home sick. I opened up my laptop and stared at Google. Well, why not put in Maude and Tim in the Sack, and see what comes up? And here is what I found:

Nice review. 3 of 5 orgasms isn't all that bad. But I would like 5 out of 5 orgasms. So, I guess I have to post more pictures. Kind-of difficult right now, but I need those 5 out of 5.

Anyway, this site is pretty interesting. I would like to know more about who writes it. There is an email address and it has a woman's name, although that means nothing. The intro to this blog states that
"Reviews, thoughts and opinions on a wide and growing assortment of sexy, erotic blogs. Please Note These are unsolicited reviews, I search the internet for them".
So I wonder how they came across ours. Either way, I'm glad that they did.

We were in Fleshbot and had no idea!

Thursday, April 19, 2007

In My Bed & In My Head

Tim and I were fortunate enough to spend last week together. It was a whirlwind but we were able to spend a few glorious nights in the sack. The first couple times we were able to have sex, it was hushed and hurried (in normal circumstances, we are both moaners, heavy breathers, and talkers). Not to say that was bad. Quite the contrary. But it was almost a desperate kind of love making for me. I needed to feel connected to him physically. Since we've been apart (a month already) we make sure to talk every single day. Actually, we talk several times throughout the day. But I miss actually being physically close to him. I would have shagged him 5 times a day every day if I could have.
We found ourselves talking about our potential sex friends several times throughout the week though. And the funny part is that they came up more this time when we were out of bed. We haven't met this couple in person yet, but the possibility is there (more on this topic later) and that excites both of us immensely. We would be sitting at dinner and wonder if our friends would have liked that restaurant. Or at a baseball game and think about how fun it would be to have them with us. I think Tim and I are ready to take this next step. And this next step wouldn't have to be over the top sexual either, although of course that is in the back of our minds too. But maybe just spend a day doing something fun. A tour of a brewery or a concert. And then if it feels right...
First and foremost, I need to make sure that my relationship with Tim is strong enough for this. We are in a difficult situation right now being a few hundred miles apart. But I feel confident in myself and in Tim. I wouldn't even consider it if I had any doubts.

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Now I am going to lay down in my bed and take off my clothes and touch myself while watching the most wonderful video friends sent to me the other day.

My Tingle

I find that I masturbate much less than I expected in the few weeks that I've been apart from Tim. In 3 weeks I have only had 2 orgasms. Isn't that odd? I wonder why. Even last year when we were separated (geographically) I orgasmed pretty much every day. Sometimes even twice a day when I used my toys. But anyway, last night I was thinking about this and even though I wasn't horny at all, I wanted to be. So I was rubbing myself trying to pull out of this rut, and thinking about everything and anything that would turn me on. And that's when I began to feel it. My left leg tingled. A lot. And I realized that it always tingles right before I have an orgasm. If any other women experience something similar, I'd be interested in hearing about it.
On another note, Tim and I have a weekend together coming up. Wish me happy screwing!

Monday, April 2, 2007


I was laying in bed... the late morning light streaming through my window. The house was quiet except for footsteps upstairs. Unsure of whose they could be, and not really caring. Wrapped up under 3 blankets and still feeling cold. My right hand brushed against my stomach and without hesitation, slipped beneath my pajama pants. My fingers found my pussy wet and aching to be touched. To be played with... to not be ignored. I began to rub just my forefinger over my clit. Not even touching my opening... just the hard little nub. Faster and faster. I could feel my nerve endings tighten throughout my entire body. My mind was playing an image over and over... my pussy tightened and within 5 minutes I was shuddering under the covers.
Thank you, Tim, for what you did months ago that had me hot and bothered this morning.