NO TITLE...JUST VENTING

I'm writing this in hopes that later in the day, I'll be doing dishes or reading a book, and Tim finds me and takes me to bed. Tim and I haven't had sex in 7 days. Granted, we did take a little vacation which was a vacation in the sense of - you need another vacation after the vacation because the 1st vacation was so crammed with things to do and you are exhausted. But we're back and rested and my 1 time in trying to initiate things came back to me as Tim hadn't had an orgasm in quite a few days either and he didn't want me to deal with 2 minute sex. We masturbated together, and it was fine. But I need to feel the intimacy and closeness that sex brings too. I always joke about how I'm hitting my sexual peak and will always be up for a shag. But the truth is, even if I'm tired and not feeling sexy, I still like to have Tim and I get naked.
*sigh*

Valentine's List

Happy Valentine's Day! I look forward to whatever today brings for Maude and me.

So it's my turn to fill out the list that Maude posted a couple days ago. Here are my answers...

Bold everything that is true about you.
Leave alone anything that is false about you.
Place an asterisk by anything that you would like to be true about you.

I have had sex while wearing a blindfold.
I have blindfolded someone during sex.
I have had sex while watching porn.
*I have had sex while surfing porn on the internet.
I sleep better after sex.
There are some nights when I can’t sleep without sex or masturbating.
The bed is not my favourite place to have sex.
I get turned on knowing someone is watching me masturbate.
*I have masturbated for someone over a webcam.
*I have had sex over a webcam.
I will have sex with someone I just met if he/she turns me on.
I have been tied up during sex.
I have had sex with someone who was tied up.
I have dripped hot wax on a lover’s body.
*I have had a lover drip hot wax on my body.
I have a foot fetish. I'm not sure about this one, but I do think the curves of a woman's foot are sensual, stockings are sexy, and socks are cute.
I have a leather fetish.
I have a tickle fetish.
*I like being choked during sex. Never really been into this sort of thing, but I'd give it a try if I had enough turtlenecks to get me through the following week. Just in case.
I have had sex in a burning building. WTF?
*I have erotic art on display somewhere in my residence. I would love to have a home decorated with erotic photography.
I enjoy nudie magazines.
*Erotic toys are a regular part of my budget.
I think Playboy is tame, maybe even boring.
I have clicked on porn links in my email.
I know the difference between girl/girl and lesbian sex in porn.
I have watched more than one gay/lesbian porn film.
Much of what I know about sex comes from porn. Until I started watching porn, I never realized that pizza-delivery guys get lucky several times a week, or that the average woman likes large groups of men to come on her face.
Interracial sex turns me on. I have to agree with Maude on this one - sex of any kind turns me on, so the answer is 'yes' by default.
I think we should do more to understand the cultures of sex.
I would participate in sex research if given the opportunity.
My current lover does not meet my sexual needs.
*I currently have a crush on someone of the same sex. I don't have a crush on anyone in particular, but I am curious about guys in general. There might be a couple of names that stick out.
*I have had sex at my place of employment.
I am often disappointed in my sexual relationships.
Some people might describe me as a nymphomaniac. Not a nympho, but definitely a pretty sexual person.
I am difficult to live with if I’m not having sex on a regular basis.
I sleep better with someone curled up next to me.
*I have had sex underwater. I tried it in the hot tub of an apartment complex that I used to live in but it didn't work out. Hopefully some of my neighbors enjoyed the view, though.
*I have had sex in the snow.
I have had sex outdoors.
I have had sex in a public place or where I might have been discovered.
*I have had sex in a bathroom stall.
*I have had sex in a car. I haven't completed sex in a car; somebody saw us and we stopped.
I am in a polyamorous relationship.
I have to have music playing during sex. I don't NEED music, but it's nice to have. Other times, it's hot when gasping and heavy breathing are the only sounds in the room.
*I have had more than 10 orgasms in one night. Jesus, no. But I'd love to see what it's like.
I have flashed strangers. In my younger days I was the naked guy at the party. It wasn't so much 'flashing' as it was in-your-face, protracted nudity.
I have given sex as a gift.
***I have set-up a three-way for my lover. Not yet...
I stopped during this list to have sex.
All day I dream about sex. Yep. No doubt.

Thanks to Dilemmas of a Virgin Slut

I read the Dilemmas of a Virgin Slut this afternoon and came across this post. My answers are below. Tim, would you like to do this in your own seperate blog?

Bold everything that is true about you.
Leave alone anything that is false about you.
Place an asterisk by anything that you would like to be true about you.

I have had sex while wearing a blindfold. I freaking LOVE this!
*I have blindfolded someone during sex.
I have had sex while watching porn.
I have had sex while surfing porn on the internet. Actually, I think I just masturbated.
I sleep better after sex.
There are some nights when I can’t sleep without sex or masturbating.
The bed is Not my favourite place to have sex.
I get turned on knowing someone is watching me masturbate.
I have masturbated for someone over a webcam.
I have had sex over a webcam.
I will have sex with someone I just met if he/she turns me on.
I have been tied up during sex.
I have had sex with someone who was tied up.
I have dripped hot wax on a lover’s body.
I have had a lover drip hot wax on my body.
I have a foot fetish.
I have a leather fetish.
I have a tickle fetish.
I like being choked during sex.
I have had sex in a burning building. ???
I have erotic art on display somewhere in my residence.
I enjoy nudie magazines.
*Erotic toys are a regular part of my budget.
I think PlayBoy is tame, maybe even boring.
I have clicked on porn links in my email.
I know the difference between girl/girl and lesbian sex in porn.
I have watched more than one gay/lesbian porn film.
Much of what I know about sex comes from porn.
Interracial sex turns me on. SEX turns me on. And not for the sake of sounding PC, but I really don't care about interracial sex.
I think we should do more to understand the cultures of sex.
I would participate in sex research if given the opportunity.
My current lover does not meet my sexual needs.
I currently have a crush on someone of the same sex.
I have had sex at my place of employment.
I am often disappointed in my sexual relationships.
Some people might describe me as a nymphomaniac. Tim?
I am difficult to live with if I’m not having sex on a regular basis.
I sleep better with someone curled up next to me.
I have had sex underwater.
*I have had sex in the snow.
I have had sex outdoors.
I have had sex in a public place or where I might have been discovered.
*I have had sex in a bathroom stall.
I have had sex in a car.
I am in a polyamorous relationship.
I have to have music playing during sex.
I have had more than 10 orgasms in one night. God no. 3 is my record and it exhausts me.
I have flashed strangers.
I have given sex as a gift. Sex with me is always a gift. Haha!
*I have set-up a three-way for my lover.
I stopped during this list to have sex. HA! Yes I did!!
All day I dream about sex.

I am lucky and I get lucky

Tim and I make love. And sometimes we have sex. And sometimes we fuck. But no matter what position we are in or what we say to each other or where we end up, having sex is one thousand times better when you are in love. I am so fortunate to be able to know that.
Baby- you are incredible and I am madly in love with you. There is nothing in this world that I wouldn't do for you.

New photos from this afternoon...

I had amazing, slippery, oily, lubed up sex this afternoon. Tim and I had the afternoon off and randomly decided to watch lesbian porn for a little bit. We both undressed during the first scene and I was already extremely wet. Tim brought out a butt plug (we have never used it as it was meant to be used - which will will explained in later posts) and lubed it up and put it inside of me. I was lying on my stomach and began rocking up and down, back and forth, savoring the sensations of having this foreign object inside of me. Tim was sitting next to me stroking his cock. He would pull the plug out of me and finger my clit here and there, but mostly I was squeezing it inside of me, wondering if I could cum from that sensation alone. As I lay there watching tv, I felt Tim turn me over. I fully expected him to take the plug out of my pussy and enter me just then. But instead, he took baby oil and dribbled it over my breasts, tummy, and thighs. I let him rub the oil onto my entire body as I continued to caress my clit. I turned my head to the side and let him massage my breasts... I listened to the sound of 2 women orgasm on the porn... I clamped my vagina down on the butt plug... I rubbed my clit furiously in circular motions... I came HARD. Tim let me rest for a few minutes and when I turned my head to him, I told him that my pussy was so wet and warm for him. He told me could only last for a few minutes. That was fine, I just wanted to feel him side of me at that point. He propped himself up in between my legs and readjusted his cock. He pushed inside and was filling me with his cum in a few moments.

Maude's side... and then some

Yes, I went on vacation. I danced with 18 year olds. I had a great time. I even made out with a girl on that trip (just on the dance floor... not in bed!!).
It was my birthday last night. Tim took off my clothes in bed and kissed his way down to my clit. While he was sending me into ecstasy by licking and teasing me, he stuck a finger inside me. He started pumping a rhythm with my g-spot and while I was trying to be quiet as to not wake our visitor, I wanted to scream and crawl out of my skin. I don't think I have ever had an orgasm quite like that one. I came so hard I was having "after-shocks" for at least 10 minutes afterwards.
Girls???
Has anyone had 2 different orgasms at once? Is that not the most amazing sensation EVER?

Tim here...

It's funny how sometimes people get incredibly horny for days or weeks at a time, for no apparent reason. That's me right now. For the past 5 days, I've been thinking about sex non-stop. Maybe it's because having a guest in our home makes it more difficult for Maude and I to have sex, and since it's more difficult, that makes me want it more. I don't necessarily think that's the only - or even the main - reason, but who knows.

Maude is out right now with her closest friend (our house guest, whom I'll call Laura) getting some quality girl-time over shopping and maybe a margarita or two. The two of them have been best friends for about 15 years and it's wonderful to see Maude as happy as she has been since her friend's arrival several days ago. They have a great relationship. Although their senses of humor are different, they very much feed off each other, and it's quite funny to watch the two of them hang out and tell all the zany stories they have experienced together.

One of the stories the girls were reminiscing about occurred last March, when they went on a road trip to attend a wedding. It happened to be in a popular area for college spring breakers, and they spent one night at a bar packed with 18- to 22-year-olds blowing off steam and acting like, well, college kids. I think the bar was pretty much empty when they walked in so they didn't expect it to turn into a nutty scene, a la Old School, but that's pretty much what happened. Laura said that they met "boyfriends" - probably horny guys several years their juniors looking to score with as many women as possible in their week away from school.

To me, it sounded like Maude might have done a little bump 'n grind with some lucky guys on the dance floor that evening. While Maude and I had been together for only a short time by that point, I think we would both agree that we were still a couple. Maybe that's why she was a little sheepish about the details of that crazy night, and I can understand why. In the early stages of a relationship, the lines are frequently hazy, e.g., are we a couple?; are we exclusive?; should I let this guy/girl buy me a drink?, etc. Actually, Laura had even prefaced the statement about their meeting their younger "boyfriends" by stressing the fact that, at the time, Maude and I were still "just dating," or something to that effect.

Had she taken advantage of the well-deserved attention that I'm sure she was receiving that night? Did she allow anybody to kiss her? Did any guys allow her to kiss them? Are these possibilities just the product of my speculative mind?

Here's the thing: the thought of Maude dancing with a guy, even making out and fooling around with him, instantly gave me a hard-on. I didn't even have a choice in the matter; it was as if the words entered by ears and caused my brain to issue a direct order for my cock to stand at attention. I quietly asked her a couple times if she had kissed anyone that night, and she said she hadn't. Maybe I should have been relieved, but to be perfectly honest, my mind was thrilled at the prospect of my beautiful girlfriend locked in a deep kiss with another guy.

She knows that I would not be upset if she had done anything sexual on that trip. Actually, she did make out with one of her female friends, and it made me happy that she felt comfortable enough to tell me about it after it happened. It was no big deal. I've told her that I get turned on at the thought of seeing her with another guy (actually, there is a story to go along with that but we can write about it in another post). I know fantasy can be different from reality, and I only want Maude to do something that she actually wants to do, not only to satisfy me.

Since we started this blog was to open up to each other, as well as to learn more about our own sexualities, it feels great to get this out on paper, so to speak.

There are countless other topics that I want to write about, and it goes without saying that I am very eager to read anything that Maude posts.